How Vibrant Is Your Relationship?

Padma Ali, LMFT, CPCC
2 min readAug 31, 2021


How are you? As we approach the Fall season, I invite you to look at all aspects of your life. Is it where you want it to be? Just like if one spoke in a wheel is not in alignment, it affects the whole wheel, if any part of your life is not in alignment, it will affect your entire life.

This was what was in my mind when I recorded my latest podcast episode, #77 Marriage Uncensored: Ten Pointers To Creating A Vibrant Relationship. As my hubby and I celebrated our 22 nd wedding anniversary, I was reflecting on all the learnings I have had in these years. We have had our share of ups and downs that has resulted in an amazing relationship at this point.

If our relationship had been devoid of the struggles, I might not have learnt the lessons I did. In this episode, I share not only my learnings but also my takeaways from having had a thriving Therapy Practice as a Couples Therapist for over two decades.

The ten pointers I elaborate in this episode are meant to create your vibrant relationship

They are:

  1. Let your partner have their experience
  2. Are you controlling?
  3. How are you communicating
  4. Are you giving to get?
  5. How is your sex life?
  6. Be a couple first before being a parent
  7. How aligned are you when it comes to finances, spirituality and parenting.
  8. Do you talk about life goals, yearly goals
  9. Are you holding grudges and wanting to be right?
  10. Take nothing personally


Once you listen to the episode, please do share your takeaways with me.

As always, grateful for you.




Padma Ali, LMFT, CPCC

Master Coach for Evolved Executives. Love brain psychology & ancient wisdom. Podcaster. Live your highest potential. Open channel for divine inspiration. Mom.